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  • Clean your Kontrol Freak Sex Toys!

    There are a few ideas on how to clean your sex toys floating around out there. Here are Kontrol Freak's favorite products and tips on how to clean your adult toys: The Doc Johnson Natural toy cleaner Which is most popular for those who do not like to get up right away, best for toys that can not be submerged, or for those who prefer to sanitize in areas your fingers will not reach quickly. You can hand wash your sex toys with body-safe soaps and warm water. Note: Most of our products are waterproof and can be submerged in water. To sterilize your metal toys it is best to sterilize with soap and water , hot boiling water, or a sex toy cleaner. Silicone toys may be cleaned in boiling water as long as there is no glue and no motor , toy cleaner, or soap and mild water. Silicone toys with motors may be cleaned with body-safe soaps and warm water or The Doc Johnson Natural toy cleaner Rubber/jelly/skin like toys: clean with The Doc Johnson Natural toy cleaner toy cleaner or soap and water (don’t boil) . These are usually disposable or one person toys. Meaning they should not be shared and may be porous. There are sterilizers that can be used. We have heard multiple people mention dishwashers (Not RECOMMENDED).

  • 7 SEXY ,FUN, KINKY things to do with your mate on Valentine's day

    Let's get kinky “Fuck me like you're being watched.” -Kontrol Freak I say this because most people would say, "fuck me like its our last time". For me, there is nothing like a good performance whether it's the last or fifth time. Everyone knows that we try to perform at our best when we know people are watching. If we're called out in a class we try to get all answers right, If we're in the middle of a dance circle we show out, and if there are cameras present we stop sipping on our drink to do something just for the camera. So, if I perform at my best and focus on pleasure. Each time will be the best sex I have ever had. This is why I say fuck me like youre being watched. No, you may not have the energy to do most of these things each time you're intimate with your mate but you don't have to wait for a "big day" or a holiday for that matter to perform at your best. There are so many routes to take when bringing your sexy to the bedroom. Below are a few examples of things you can do to keep any longterm relationship fresh, exciting, hot and explosive. Here are a few that I have done and have found to be not only fun but sexy and kink. Wax Play Kinky Twister Beginners Bondage Nuru Massage Couples Play using toys Role Play Sex toys and Setting a scene There are so many #creative things to do on a special day like Valentine’s or any other special occasion. Body to body #nuru massage can get really slippery and #fun. It becomes a sensual act between the two as your bodies collide. Using this #kinky mat on your bed or floor makes it easy for you to take it from your bedroom to your living room or even a new location. Sexy #twister is just a regular twister game that you can #play nude with your love and make up your own rules for each color. The #vibratingpanties is a cost effective idea for #beginners and also those you. Can’t afford an expensive vibrating panty. The wand is amazing for #singles and couples as well you can use it alone or with your mate. It’s waterproof, rechargeable, the head is flexible, and it has 12 different vibrating modes . Another fun thing we have is #waxplay ( please see our wax play blog) you must be trained and /take extra precautions when using was in your bedroom. I love it, it’s fun. It’s a different euphoria is the perfect word for wax play. last but not least we have ties. Yes, men ties! It can be used for some bondage action. Always remember to be cautious when trying new things in your #bedroom. #bedroomsecrets with #kontrolfreak

  • Choosing the Right Sex Toy

    People always ask," what is your favorite toy?" My immediate response: It really depends on what form of stimulation I want that day. Then I would follow by asking , "What simulations do you enjoy? " Now that is when you start to think about what it means. It really is not a trick question. I use it to gauge the conversation. In order to pick the right toy you must know what you enjoy. There is really not one toy that is better than the other because it all depends on you and what you enjoy. To begin, we use toys for different purposes. Some of us use them for vaginal penetration, anal stimulation, dual-stimulation,g spot stimulation, p spot play, and even to practice giving blow jobs. Keep in mind when choosing adult toys there are many shapes, colors , sizes, frequencies, and vibrating patterns. Knowing this, choosing the right sex toy can be a difficult task. When choosing a vibrator or dildo, it’s imperative that you consider safety. Check the material as dildos can be made out of metals, jelly, glass, silicone, crystal, or even wood. You want to avoid jelly toys as they contain phthalates chemicals (not safe). Now, if you can’t afford a high-quality adult toy take these next few tips into consideration : * Use a condom on your toy * Clean your toys with body safe products (avoid antibacterial soaps: dishwasher detergent ) * Use a toy cleaner, mild soap, you can sterilize silicone toys (all of kontrol freak products are silicone) , by boiling it in a pot of water. * Remove the bullet vibrator if the toy has one. *You can also use wipes (not all) * As mentioned before you can use mild soaps like Dial or Dove. (Rinse thoroughly) Don’t be afraid to use LUBE, but be wary of using silicone lube with silicone toys (it will deteriorate the silicone). Use a water- based lube. If you’re buying your first toy, think of how you plan to use it. Do you want it for anal play? vaginal insertion? Is it for double penetration? Is it for partnered or solo play? Do you want a strap-on ? Do you want a phallic-looking dildo, or not? Do you want a dino toy? Do you want large, girthy or a small one to start? Do you want a sleeve you can put your penis inside as an extender? All of this just depends on your preferences and experience level, and it is not impossible to meet your needs. Finding the right toy does not have to be a huge task. Make it fun, experiment, and then go to town. If you’re buying a toy from Kontrol Freak don’t be afraid to ask questions! We are always happy to help you find something right for you.

  • The 4 stages of a woman's sexual response cycle. Women & Arousal

    What are some changes her body goes through when being aroused? Everyone loves the fiery feeling! #vagina #wet #sex #sexorgan #arousal Do you ever wonder what she feels when she's being turned on? Do you wonder if you're the only woman experiencing these intense changes when being aroused? Well, you are not alone. We're here to give you the most common facts... Full details on the stages to arousal in women The body goes through four phases: #desire #arousal #orgasm and #resolution Each individual may experience all, some, or maybe even none of what we will be mentioning here.Many will not experience these phases in this exact order or even at the same intensity as another. If you noticed the diagram above and didn't understand here is your breakdown of characteristics for each stage: In the #first stage of desire #excitement the heart rate begins to elevate, their breathing pattern is faster, their breast will enlarge (just a little) and her nipples will become erect (nipples on hard). Muscles all over her body will tighten. Some women's faces, necks, or chests will become flushed (sex flush because blood rushes to the pelvic area, engorgement.) and her clitoris enlarges. In the #second stage arousal #plateau the yoni/vagina #yoni #vagina #pussy creates a lubricant which makes it easy for men to enter which makes sex pleasurable. The labia will flatten ,then open up, and her vagina will lengthen and widen (preparing for the D). When engorgement occurs it creates that warm feeling men love. As her arousal continues, everything becomes enlarged and more pronounced but her clitoris  gets 50% shorter right before she climaxes(cums). When she reaches her #orgasm in stage #three she'll feel contractions in her vagina, in her uterus, and even her anus and he’ll love it. This is why in most cases men reach their orgasm at the same time if they’re in sync, the vaginal grip and pulling intensifies the feeling. The contractions do have a purpose other than feeling great. These contractions help suck semen higher up into the vagina, making it easier for sperm to swim to your egg and conceive. The uterus, labia, and clitoris then return to their normal size, and she experiences extreme muscle relaxation. At this point, she may be able to have additional orgasms.(multiple orgasms) During the big O the heart rate and respirations are elevated even more than they were in the first stage and there's a sudden release of tension. FIRE!! Stage #four for resolution you return to your normal state slowly but surely. Everything begins to go back to normal. You may be worn out, sleepy, fatigue, hungry, or even ready for round two but intimacy is usually gained with a sense belonging. Don't forget to cuddle!!

  • Unlock a New Level of Freak in Your Partner

    Learn to incorporate sex toys and unlock a new level of freak in your partner. #sextoys #freak #freakhoe #adultporn Men are not in competition with sex toys!! Telling your partner about your interest in sex toys can be intimidating and can even make you feel vulnerable, but it is okay. There is no wrong or right here. Many men of African decent may state that they will not " compete with a machine". Others may feel intimidated if the toy looks like a phallus or is slightly bigger than his penis; while some will feel the exact opposite and may want to please you with something larger. This does not mean you will be forgotten or left behind. Sex toys can take your sex life to newer levels while experiencing new textures, sensations, and several orgasms through modes of vibration. Adding toys to sexy time with your partner does not mean something is wrong or even missing for that matter. In fact, adding toys adds a variety to the fun you will have in your bedroom. Not to mention the enhancement of pleasure you will gain. Think about it this way, you love chicken but some days you may need hot sauce or BBQ on that chicken to add more flavor. Its the same concept with sex when you add #sextoys. Understanding that sexual appetites fluctuate will make all the difference. We're not knocking conventional or vanilla sex but after awhile you may want to do something a little different to add some excitement. If your partner declines trying a different topping ie. sex toy. Try to come to an agreement. Compromise, you may want to suggest incorporating a toy once a week, use them while alone, use them to send videos (at your own risk), or try a less intimidating toy like the one in the image below: .

  • 4 Ways to Punish Your Submissive Without Spanking

    Alternatives to spanking: * Kneeling on rice,sand, or grits * Position Holding (stay in place) * Add spice to gag * Cold Shower Find your #submissives point of pain. Everyone's level of pain is different so you want to be mindful of what your submissive considers to be painful. Administer #pain without spanking. Have them #kneel on grits, rice, or sand. Kneeling on this for an extended period of time will create some strain. This will create another form of pain. Have them hold their position against a cold wall. Holding a burning #candle in their hand or #planking while holding a burning candle on their back. (let the candle drip on their body) This can definitely take a toll on the body. Have them get in a cold room and shower them with cold water. Not a soul has ever enjoyed a cold shower. Add hot sauce or a food they dislike to a gag, roll it on the gag, and place it on them. This is just torture they will be unable to move and speak besides doing their gesture to tap out. Want more information? Come to an event in #miami to learn more by clicking on the link below: kontrolfreak.eventbrite.com

  • How to use Nipple Clamps properly!

    Nipple clamps are used for punishment and torture scenes. Normally used to inflict pain. Always with consent. Clamps are used on so many places such as: Nipples Inner Thighs (more nerve endings there) Penis Skin of scrotum Labia minora and majora What at home items can be used in place of Kontrol Freak Nipple Clamps? Clothing Pins There are a few things you need to know before diving in: #nippleclamps #clamps come in different colors, shapes, and brands. Clamps may come weighted, with bells, chains, and with vibrators. Most #beginners may describe the feeling as painful and intense stinging if they don't find pleasure in pain or if they are improperly utilizing the clamps. How to properly Remove Clamps! Snatch them off to inflict more pain. Release tension screw or squeeze to open the mouth of the clamps. Using nipple clamps with #piercings can be painful, be sure to place them on your nipples and not on the piercing itself. Use nipple clamps with cautuon!

  • Contraceptives

    What is a contraceptive? What are they used for? “ . Contraceptives for Women with HIV

  • 5 Steps to Squirting

    Squirting or Gushing What's the hype? “The eruption is amazing! It is an intense and sensual relief all at once." -La " I’ve squirted once. Best feeling ever." - Mashe Melvin "I made 4 females squirt so far I don't see nothing wrong as long as it ain't my bed and I can shower immediately after" -Sean Smith As controversial as the topic may be we love to discuss it and explore it's entirety. Female ejaculation Squirting 101 Confidence and Comfort. You must be comfortable mentally and physically in order to squirt. Remember , without confidence you will not be comfortable. Get your partner or toy ready to start. Arousal. Do whatever it takes to get you aroused. HINT: The G-spot must be stimulated in order for you to squirt. Stimulate. By foreplay, rubbing the clitoris and g-spot, putting a vibrator to work, penetration, licking,etc. Erupt. 3 different ways to squirt uncontrollably. - stimulate the clitoris and use a mate to do the come-hither motion on your g-spot in your vagina. -Place your thighs to your chest or as close as you possibly can, with your feet pointed above your head, and have your mate penetrate (it is intense but you will squirt). -If you're doing this alone use a vibrator and your fingers to stimulate your clitoris and g-spot at the same time. These all work just fine. Explore a new you. Where does it come from and what is it? As most may know the liquid comes from the urethra. The urethra is the same hole urine comes from. The only difference that has sexologists like myself thinking that it is free of urine is the sensation when climaxing and the fact that it is odorless. Although, it may feel like you have to urinate it is far more intense. Studies have yet to prove that it is actually urine.

  • The 4 stages of a woman's sexual response cycle. Women & Arousal

    What are some changes her body goes through when being aroused? Everyone loves the fiery feeling! #vagina #wet #sex #sexorgan #arousal Do you ever wonder what she feels when she's being turned on? Do you wonder if you're the only woman experiencing these intense changes when being aroused? Well, you are not alone. We're here to give you the most common facts... Full details on the stages to arousal in women The body goes through four phases: #desire #arousal #orgasm and #resolution Each individual may experience all, some, or maybe even none of what we will be mentioning here.Many will not experience these phases in this exact order or even at the same intensity as another. If you noticed the diagram above and didn't understand here is your breakdown of characteristics for each stage: In the #first stage of desire #excitement the heart rate begins to elevate, their breathing pattern is faster, their breast will enlarge (just a little) and her nipples will become erect (nipples on hard). Muscles all over her body will tighten. Some women's faces, necks, or chests will become flushed (sex flush because blood rushes to the pelvic area, engorgement.) and her clitoris enlarges. In the #second stage arousal #plateau the yoni/vagina #yoni #vagina #pussy creates a lubricant which makes it easy for men to enter which makes sex pleasurable. The labia will flatten ,then open up, and her vagina will lengthen and widen (preparing for the D). When engorgement occurs it creates that warm feeling men love. As her arousal continues, everything becomes enlarged and more pronounced but her clitoris  gets 50% shorter right before she climaxes(cums). When she reaches her #orgasm in stage #three she'll feel contractions in her vagina, in her uterus, and even her anus and he’ll love it. This is why in most cases men reach their orgasm at the same time if they’re in sync, the vaginal grip and pulling intensifies the feeling. The contractions do have a purpose other than feeling great. These contractions help suck semen higher up into the vagina, making it easier for sperm to swim to your egg and conceive. The uterus, labia, and clitoris then return to their normal size, and she experiences extreme muscle relaxation. At this point, she may be able to have additional orgasms.(multiple orgasms) During the big O the heart rate and respirations are elevated even more than they were in the first stage and there's a sudden release of tension. FIRE!! Stage #four for resolution you return to your normal state slowly but surely. Everything begins to go back to normal. You may be worn out, sleepy, fatigue, hungry, or even ready for round two but intimacy is usually gained with a sense belonging. Don't forget to cuddle!!

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Miami, FL 

T: 305-850-2606​

Email:

Kontrolfreak411@gmail.com

Contact
 

Miami, FL 

T: 305-850-2606​

Email:

Kontrolfreak411@gmail.com

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